A Connected Approach to Children's Social and Emotional Development and Parent De-escalation

My work supports both children and parents at once: parents learning how to de-escalate and respond in hard moments, and children receiving gentle support to build emotional balance, confidence, calm, and connection.

   

De-Escalation: What to Say in the Moment

Affect labeling is the skill of naming what a child is feeling without fixing or dismissing the emotion. It sounds simple, and it is. That's part of why it works.

Here is what it sounds like in practice:

"You feel really frustrated." "You're feeling overwhelmed right now." "You feel sad and misunderstood."

Grounded in neuroscience and used in high-conflict environments, affect labeling helps calm emotional escalation quickly and effectively. Most parents find that once they have this language, emotional moments become more manageable. That small shift makes a big difference at home.

      

Fairy School: Social and Emotional Learning Through Imagination and Joy

Fairy School is the child-facing side of this work, designed for children who are sensitive, imaginative, or have big feelings. Fairy School helps children build social and emotional skills through imagination, creativity, and experiential learning. These experiences are offered through Fairy MailOnline ClassesIn-Person ClassesSummer Camp, and One-On-One Sessions. Fairy School is not separate from the parent work. It is the reinforcement layer.

   

My Training and Background

My work is grounded in over 15 years of international experience in education, emotional development, and experiential learning. I have worked with children and communities across the United States, Latin America, India, and Canada through empowerment programs, nonprofit organizations, and educational startups. I hold a B.A. in International Studies and Education from Middlebury College, Vermont (2011).

My training includes:

  • 18 years of study in emotional and energetic practices with Aleya Dao (Seven Cups of Consciousness)
  • Certification in emotional validation and de-escalation using affect labeling with Doug Noll
  • Extensive experience designing and leading youth empowerment programs internationally

I am fluent in English and Spanish and work with families in both languages.

My approach is also shaped by early Waldorf education, where creativity, imagination, and connection to nature are central to learning.

 

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